直到你懂得愛自己時
才真正了解什麼是愛
當你覺得沒有人愛你,
請先問,你愛不愛自己;
當你覺得全世界的人都不懂你,
請先問,你懂不懂自己;
當你覺得所有人都放棄了你,
請先問,你是否先放棄了自己;
我們總喜歡把眼睛向外看,箭頭指向別人,
卻忘了回頭先看看自己;
當你懂得回頭抱著自己,珍惜與愛自己,
那個懂你愛你珍惜你的人就會出現
— 林雅雯
Not until you love yourself
do you know what love is
When you feel no one loves you,
please ask firstly: Do you love yourself?
When you feel no one in the world understands you,
please ask firstly: Do you understand yourself?
When you feel everyone has abandoned you,
please ask firstly: Have you abandoned yourself first?
We always like to have our eyes looking outwards, and point the finger at others,
but we forget to turn our eyes inwards and look at ourselves.
Not until you know how to look inwards, and hug, treasure and love yourself,
will the one who knows, loves and treasures you appear.