原生女人的「野性」

男人可能會認為一個活出野性的原生女人令人卻步。

他們想：「哦，她是個野性女人，那一定意味著她很危險。她可能瘋了，讓人很難應付。」

從某種意義上說，這是事實。
對於那些還沒有完全準備好自己
並了解自我狀態的人來說，
她的確太強大了。

對於那些寧願閒聊八卦
而不願深入生命的人來說，
她實在令人難以招架。

如果你希望她壓抑自己的憤怒，悲傷或痛苦，
不讓你看到她的混亂，
那麼她真的會超出你的負荷。

但是請相信這一點：
野性女人會是你見過的最安全的女人。

她總是傾注全力，不會退縮。
沒有前後不一致的落差。
你會見到她，
她也會讓你看到她真實的樣子。
她足夠相信自己的價值到去向你展現自己，
並讓你決定是否願意與她同行。

她不會為了得到你的愛
而隱藏自己的某些面向，
因為她不會浪費時間去經營缺乏深度和意義的關係。

一個野性的女人會邀請你去愛自己的全部。

她會在那裏接納你，
因為她已經對自己下了功夫，
她完全地接納了自己。

Men may think a wild woman is a woman to be feared.
They think, “oh she’s a wild woman, that must mean she’s dangerous. She’s probably crazy, too much to handle.”

And in a sense, it’s true.

She’s too much for someone who isn’t ready to show up fully and check their ego at the door. She’s too much for someone who would rather have small talk than go deep. She’s too much if you expect her to hold back her anger or her sadness or pain to protect you from seeing her in her chaos.

But trust this: a wild woman is the safest type of woman you’ll ever meet. She doesn’t hold back. There are no surprises. You’ll meet her and she’ll let you see her for who she is. She trusts her own worthiness enough to reveal herself to you and let you decide whether or not you’d like to walk with her. She doesn’t hide parts of herself in an attempt to keep your love because she doesn’t have time for connections that lack depth and meaning.

A wild woman will invite you to love all parts of yourself. She’ll accept you in that place, because she has done the work to accept herself there.

作者：Sheleana Aiyana

編譯：7flow